The main thing for a man is to understand that you love him and that you are faithful to him. That you are not with him because of money, that you won't leave him if he runs out, that he is not just a staging post for you and you are looking for a better option, but that you just chose him and closed the relationship for yourself. That's when he can live quietly, work quietly, do his business and not think about who you're texting with, what you're doing there. A relationship should be peaceful, a relationship should be relaxing, not sitting on a powder keg