"When we've formerly lived without boundaries it is common to feel guilt after we express one. Know that you can both increase your tolerance for guilt and that you are healing people-pleasing behavior. Sit in the discomfort of putting yourself first. You are worthy of that." - Mark Groves
"Look around you. How many people do you think are settling? Probably a hell of a lot. People settle into okay relationships, okay jobs, okay friends, and an okay life. Why? Because okay is comfortable. Okay pays the bills, and provides a warm bed at night. Some people are fine with okay, and guess what? That's okay. But okay is not thrilling, it isn't passionate, it's not life-changing or unforgettable. Okay is not the reason you risk absolutely everything you've got for the smallest chance that something absolutely amazing could happen." #CreateTheLove
"What if you asked for it? What if you actually told your partner exactly what you want and how they could love you? What if you declared to the world, to God, to the Universe, what you actually want to do with your life??" - Mark Groves
I am a huge believer in the law of attraction and in metaphysics. What you think and give energy and love will manifest into your life in one way or another. Take time to declare what you want. To yourself, to your partner, to the universe. Envision it as if it is already happening!
"In general, people are not drawn to perfection in others. People are drawn to shared interests, shared problems, and an individual's life energy. Humans connect with humans. Hiding one's humanity and trying to project an image of perfection makes a person vague, slippery, lifeless and uninteresting." - Robert Glover
Have you ever had an acupuncture session? How did it help you?
I utilized acupuncture to help with my uterus, help me relax and release tension as well as reduce neck and back pain.
Your health and well-being are priorities you can take into you own hands by choosing natural healing modalities that help reduce stress, relieve pain, release tension and improve your immune system.
During my sessions I always fell asleep during, it was the one time I could silence my mind and just be. I'd wake up refreshed with a surge of energy.
Willow is a wearable Breast Pump. :) This morning my breasts felt a little different. I can definitely sense changes taking place since starting to power pump!
❤ " Don't be afraid to be the one that loves the most! Strong relationships start with the willingness to be the one to say "I'm sorry" or "I love you" or "I miss you" first. It takes courage to be the one to invite another into our heart.
•Being hurt is always a possible outcome in love... and so we often try to avoid or escape the hurt and only open ourselves up to feel the love part. While you can't put a limit on how much you love people, you can protect and preserve your heart by having amazing boundaries.
• Boundaries are what make you feel safe to open your heart more and more and more. Many of us mistakenly think that boundaries mean being less loving. But boundaries don't block people out, rather they allow us to feel safe to open our hearts while knowing that we have our own backs. We can both love people AND not tolerate BS. In fact, not tolerating BS is often the most loving thing we can do. The most loving people often have the strongest boundaries.
•Don't be afraid to love too much, but always be clear with your boundaries and needs so that you are safe to love and share your soul." #createthelove
Q & A #7: Farthest place I have traveled and where I would love to go?!?
Tell me where is the farthest you have traveled and where would you love to go?
I must admit I have been on the giving and receiving end of this one! "Ghosting is someone dumping themselves for you! Sometimes we’re not ready for people, and sometimes people are not ready for us. Even though it hurts much more to be the person who isn’t chosen, remember that you likely have not chosen someone too. Forgive your past loves, and you forgive yourself when you weren’t at your best.
To my past lovers,
I'm sorry I didn't know how
to hold your heart.
I'm sorry I wasn't ready for you.
To those who couldn't me3t me, I forgive you.
Clear past. Open heart." - Mark Groves
Baby steps merged with leaps of faith make your dreams happen now.
Talk to me. What is something you have dreamed about for a while but have not started taking steps towards?
I encourage and invite you to start stepping towards your dream now! This picture is my little cabin. It is a work in progress and in my mind and on paper I have graphed out everything I am loving to create and do on my ten acre parcel this sits on. And that is just the start.
Baby steps makes it happen now!
"Remember that children, marriages, and flower gardens reflect the kind of care they get." — H. Jackson Brown, Jr. Any guesses on what type of berry this is? I grew these in my garden about a decade ago. This is definitely something I am loving to plant when the snow melts!
Well here we go again, filter is off and I am going to share some things I thought I never would! ;) Only Fans Exclusive Q & A #5: What are some things I have done sexually in my life? Thank you for the thought provoking questions and the walk down memory lane.
Just me being me practicing tying the tie before my Tie and Nothing else photo shoot!
"You don't need anyone's affection or approval in order to be good enough. When someone rejects, abandons or judges you, it isn't actually about you. It's about them and their own insecurities, limitations, and needs, and you don't have to internalize that. Your worth isn't contingent upon other people's acceptance of you - it's something inherent. You exist, and therefore, you matter. You're allowed to voice your thoughts and feelings. You're allowed to assert your needs and take up space. You're allowed to hold onto the truth that who you are is exactly enough. And you're allowed to remove anyone from your life who makes you feel otherwise." - Daniell Koepke
Do your eyes change colors when you are aroused?!? I've been told mine turn green. ;) These are a couple of photos from the tie photo shoot I did for our first contest!
"Be around people that are good for your soul!" - Author Unknown
OnlyFans Q & A Series #2: What has been giving me the most Internal Conflict in life?
This question is one I decided not to keep exclusive to OnlyFans and I posted this on my YouTube Channel also: https://youtu.be/MgKFGY9Nlss If you have not had the chance to subscribe to my YouTube Channel I would love for you to check it out! Thank you!
As I sit here trying to decide which picture to post I think back to lying in front of the camera, trying to move at just the right angle. What is the right angle?!? No wonder so many people cannot relax and actually enjoy a moment of unbridled passion. How can you if you are worried about trying to stay in what you perceive as the ideal position visually for someone else? Or feel the need to have the light off because you are self conscious about some part of you. Embrace you, all of you. Honestly, as I look at these two photos I am more drawn to the candid roll where I was turning and my butt is imperfectly, perfect! Just be you. ♡ Michele
Which photo are you drawn to? If you double click the image it opens up more than just the thumbnail square view.
"When you align you with you it causes cellular cohesion. That’s a peace “fitting in” can never give you. In essence, Self-Expression = Freedom." - Mark Groves